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FINDING OUT YOURSELF

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FINDING OUT YOURSELF This is one thing that I have found to be Lacking in this age is the fact that many in the pursuit of fame and wealth ends up in another person’s shadow. Self awareness or actualization is not you trying to be unique but rather because you’re. In Philosophy of self, self-awareness is the experience of one's own personality or individuality. It is not to be confused with consciousness in the sense of qualia.   Self consciousness is being aware of one's environment and body and lifestyle, self-awareness is the recognition of that awareness. The very reason why many are ashamed is simply because they are not aware of what they re and what they can do. I could remember well a scenario when I was in secondary school, just so you know in I was quiet an introverted person which is due to the kind of mum I had, you know those set of children that are not allowed to go out except for church, school or the market. This affected me in ways that was not so confid

MANAGING CHANGE

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CHANGE MANAGEMENT     Change is the only constant thing in the world today and one thing we must deliberately embrace. Imagine a business that got established in the 90s, and coming with the technological innovation and the emergence of the internet; we would only be expected of such business to adapt to the change occurring already in the world such that we have many business already on every social media pages allowing customers and end users have easy access to the product but take in your imagination, that the company refused to adapt to such societal changes, they will only be left as a mediocre in the society because people will go to businesses   that are easy to reach; the company will many times make more profit whilst the other company will lose much customers. This is not just important to business but very important tom individual. Age is automatic but change is deliberate. If you’re going to live an inspiring and effective life you must learn to adapt to ch

WITHOUT FAILURE

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                WITHOUT FAILURE Failure is inherent in life, such that the most successful people in the world have stages of failure in their journey to Success. The Society many times have painted to us that failure is abnormal, people many times get mocked leading to Isolation and many times stagnation of such person. The lie again given by many alleged motivational speaker is that life is very smooth and no pothole; if you’re reading know that it’s a lie. Again, our parents in the bid to instill discipline they've done more injury to our minds, the School system makes the man that fail different from those that passed in the Exam. But you see in all of these you must never fall into that trap. You’re reading this right now and I am very sure you’re into a project or in the process of starting one. Don’t allow the fear of failing stop you from starting what you hope to begin. Or probably you have failed already; you can start again and dream big. In what might be at onc

Building the Right Structures

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In Life we must things we do and the things we don't tolerate. If you live your life allowing the things around you get into you, you might end of having a damaged life.         You'd remember tagging some older people as principled! Because you saw some obvious trait in the way they go about life. Structures in life will start with what you do daily. What you do daily is as important as what you'd eventually become. Many don't become worthwhile in life because they don't have a solid structures to their lives. Structure helps you stay focused and get things done. Structures are the Combination of what you do daily and what you create. Structures don't just jump on you! You create them. Take for instance, do you have Plans for the week before they begin. Lack of plans are what make people jump into your Space and you end of wasting time, and even the week. The same way lack of proper plan will make an Entrepreneur or an individual feel like the work he has is ov

Personal Development

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There are Two important things I'd love you to take note of as you read. Personal Development is Very Deliberate. It doesn't jump on you. First; PROCRASTINATION We know thursdays are for Throwback, so let's throwback to the plans you made when the week started. Or probably you have an habit of not planning at all. Many of us starts the week or even businesses with lots of enthusiasm and liveliness. We had plans but only few people are staying through with what they planned.  Some have mastered excuses!. Procrastination is not a character trait but an habit. You need to deal with it as soon as today! Recent studies have shown that people regret more the things they haven't done than the things they have done. In addition, feelings of regret and guilt resulting from missed opportunities tend to stay with people much longer. If you remember when we were in Secondary School or Uni, you have a test some students will be forming oversabi they won't read when others are re

DO IT AFRAID

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Fear is a natural emotional response to things we don’t know. Its been programmed into us from an early age to keep us safe and protected, like those moments when you parents would tell you don’t poke your finger inside an electric socket because they didn’t want you to get electrocuted, that fear incited in you kept you safe. However it is this very same fear that holds countless entrepreneurs from really achieving remarkable success. So what about all those super successful moguls out there? What are they doing that the rest aren’t? It’s really simple, they have found a way to either work with their fear until they conquer it. The Risk is High. Many times I see alot of people afraid of doing great thing, afraid of starting something, afraid of letting others know their opinion, afraid of following their passion. The truth is this, it is better to start and fail than to not do anything. Doing nothing is Mediocrity. Starting is strength. There's only one thing that makes your dream

Personal Development 101

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Let's talk about Personal Development.  Improvements is not overnight, it is actually overtime. Whatever you do consistently is what you become! Everybody has a tendency of improving but many don't even bother to pay attention to development. And Personal Development is just those simple and yet deliberate steps you take to be a better version of yourself. Personal Development is irrespective of career choice, it is actually what positions you to either be a better boss or a employee. Here are few highlights . 1. Have a Plan . I love to always say that Planning initiates productivity. You must not let a day go without a plan. If you want to have noticeable development, then you must have simple plans for your day and your week. You need to understand that in life there are stages, many people are still moving round the circle of thinking and no work! Take Seun for instance, She's on her Job but she had a desire to start baking and selling it out. Her vacation came since sh

Are you thinking properly?

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Cultivating the Right Mind. The Mind of a person is a sit of all the idea and success you see them exhibit. It takes a proper mind to think about innovations and development. The issue many times is people have dropped the idea of the mind thinking it's a mere motivation not knowing that in the actual sense of it whatever you do is a function of what you have thought on whether deliberately or you just acted on an information. Information itself is a mind, someone's mindset about something. There is actually nothing achievable without the mind being in it's prosper place. The influence you have on your mind is the information source you allow into it. If you're going to current a person's mindset you'd have to go the information source and make the correction. Take this Scenario, you a friend of yours involved in a business or anything and it's thriving. Many things will come to your mind. You'd love to do the same or negatively envy the person. In eithe

STRETCH

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  How far can you go? There was a young man with big dreams and great aspirations for life. He told himself he was good make use of his vacation to learn new stuffs due to the excitement in his dreams. Vacation came and went But this young man had not been able to do all he had always purpose to do! And this is the Story of many people today. Big Dream! Big Aspirations! Wonderful Enthusiasm! One thing is Lacking, from the story of the man is called PUSH. The Law of Push is one of the most important aspect of our life and goal setting. It is said that nothing is achieved the the "comfort zone", I call the comfort zone a place where dream happens without work. The human mind is so powerful that some can imagine something so enormous!. Many of us are guilty of this, you can sit down and imagine yourself in a range rovers 2019 in a big mansion, that's exactly what happens in the comfort zone. The Law of PUSH is Stretch .  Stretch is an attribute of everyone especially a Leade

In Another Perspective!

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Many people go through life with lots of dreams and aspirations But still nothing has been productive. There's always something lacking. Dreams ought to be realistic.! Check that again. You must be ready to go through the hardwork of life and maximize challenges as they will come. Now, that you know what to do! And you have that toughness to go through the pressures, then 3 things are important. 1. Creative thinking . A Mind is very powerful. This is not dreaming anymore But processing how and what it will take to get you to where you'd love to be from where you're right now. Many people have limited their minds and have in many ways stopped possibilities. You must understand the mind and how it works. The questions is What can you see? What's your vision? It takes time but it worthwhile. That's why your mental health is very much important. Don't forget the greatest leaders are those that have developed their mind in creative imagination. 2. Realistic Goal . As